"Love is in the meadow": James Blunt refuses his song serves as a generic

What do men expect from women?

Unconscious determinants that make a man to choose a partner and having a satisfying relationship with it are many. Some of the desire to perform on that meeting are:

Feel that is the most important man in her life and that no other can compete with him. Something that particularly hurts is that your partner or you compare with other minusvalore.

Able to communicate in all areas, both sexual and emotional, knowing that there is going to be http://www.pickedlooks.com/evening-dresses-c_13/. Particularly appreciates the woman did not point their mistakes and likes to wait for him to speak. Given the expression of affection, the man feels more helpless than women because culturally has asked him to suppress more.

Not to give advice when he has not asked.
You expect your partner asks things you can give, not those that can not reach, because in this case, feels that not “up to scratch”.

Be desired and to fully satisfy the woman in the sexual arena. The importance of this to the man knows the woman and why some may get to pretend to fulfill this desire to see her happy. Conduct with which they deceive themselves because unconscious psychological conflicts, can not enjoy as a woman with a man.

Feeling helped the paternal function. Wants the mother of his children values ​​her role in educating their hijos.Si his relationship with his own father has not been properly prepared, it can be very susceptible to the valuation that makes your partner about his own paternal function. Besides this, she can attack their role as a parent because it tends to be closer to their children emotionally. In this case, the man may react by withdrawing from the appropriate role and delegating role in women, increasing resentment among them and he gets away with their children.

Search alternating roles in the couple: a woman can do, on occasion, a parental function, and the default man without this being cause for criticism.

Be respected in their freedom. Men can not bear to read them the riot act and rightly so, because doing so is not treating them as adults but as children who must be educated.

Common interests

Finally, a man looking for a couple who do not complain too much about the circumstances of life, because the man has a tendency to want to solve everything that happens to your partner and feel that should solve all the difficulties of women.

In short, the ideal woman has something of mother, lover something, some companion and is an accomplice to enjoy the day. All this is what man tries to find a woman when choosing your partner to share his life and raise a family.

In addition to feeling loved and respected, man seeks to become a key architect in the happiness of your partner, but at the same time, you need your partner know it’s not “superman” and that it need not be that you want. A man who offers his shoulder to support your partner, no longer a man when looking for a shoulder to lean on.

In both sexes the most fundamental thing we do not expect another very different things together. Basically we respect, they want us as we are, do not try to mold us, that value us and not attack us when we defend our interests, which do not have to face that we have with our partner. Perhaps what sets us apart is the way we ask. The higher the personal knowledge that we have of ourselves, the closer we find in the couple what we seek. If we do so, we deceive ourselves about ourselves and our relationship with the beloved.

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